It has been 7 years since I lived in the San Francisco Bay Area. My path has taken me to the depths of Self exploration and back. In these depths I redefined and confirmed my Service to humanity. Thus the Professional Sensualist was born.

Now, 7 years later I find myself called back to the Bay Area. The level of consciousness and community sing to my heart. The next few months I will be expanding my offerings and sharing these delightful Sensualist sessions with sincere seekers.

In CELEBRATION of this return, I am offering a special offering of support to reconnect with my Bay Area roots. For the next phases of my journey, I am offering these Arts at an amazing value. Yes, I understand these are challenging times financially. I honor your hard work for your chi, and when you choose to share this abundance here for your own growth and pleasure you make a choice. How do you choose to spend your money?

In September I will be moving to San Francisco for a couple of weeks. I have a delightful Temple space available and will be creating delightful sessions for sincere seekers.

I have some Cuddle Parties planned for this fall in the East Bay. These events are a great non-sexual way to learn communication, and relationship boundary skills you can use everyday. Check out cuddleparty.com for more information about these wonderful events.

If you are a practitioner of the Sensual Arts, I will be coordinating with Dr. Betty Martin for her Like a Pro course in the end of August.

More events will be added soon. Keep your eyes out, and I look forward to hearing from you soon to schedule your delightful Sensualist session.

Blessings,

Kris Ellen

In the Tantra world we speak about Sacred spot (for both men and women), and Amrita.  We talk about life force activation, and Kundalini movement. All beautiful and amazing pieces of the Sacred whole.

In the same vein I could talk the Prostate and G Spot, female ejaculation. Bio-electric energy, and subtle energetic body currents. These feel slightly more academic and scientific however I am speaking about similar physical, and energetic structures.

Why is it that we choose one set of words over another? Why does society have less charge around some words and more charge around the direct “slag” terminology of our sexual bodies?

For the last 6 years I have been dancing in this question, it is one that fascinates and frustrates me.  If I could only say what people understand. Our common language does not necessarily include Hindu language references, or New Age energetic understanding. There is a reason why people who study ancient languages spend  years mastering the words of the ancients. There are subtle nuisances which defy casual understanding. Sanskrit is a ancient and beautiful language.

In some ways the landscape of Sacred Sexuality is defined learning the vocabulary. How and in what context we are using the words to describe our physical connection.

A few days ago I was introduced to the word: Auparishtaka: from the Kama Sutra: the Art of Oral sexual dancing.

I continue to be amazed at the many different ways we can say something.

Sharing my wonder here with you.

Blessings,

Kris Ellen

As a being dedicated the the Service of that which is bigger than myself, I rejoice to share with you a new chapter in my life. For a long time, I have stumbled on expressing the words which would best serve others. My internal critic is a very alive and present voice in my internal world. I am human, and part of the blessings I have found on this journey is the Service to share knowledge gained from experience.

I am filled with Joy to be able to share this is a deep aspect of Service. To embody the wisdom and knowledge gained from this life. I am honored to share here. This is truly my Spiritual bliss.

On my journey, I have noticed  internal voices blocking the Goddesses message. My human ego, trying very hard to tell me what is and is not the word of God. Ack! Resistance is futile. I find fear in my mind. Fear of not putting the words in the “right” order (of being judged for poor grammar and poor spelling). I notice the fear of being “unworthy” of these Divine gifts. I notice the different voices inside of myself and honor them for the many facets of this unique, and beautiful being. As I continue to evolve and move through these fears, I embrace the message of the Divine. We are all beautiful as we are.

I declare this a safe space to fully embody the Divine. All that which I bring to session, I bring here to myself. I am called to step deeper into my fears, to explore the depths of Self Realization and continue to bring these gifts to you, for your path, so that you may see yourself in the mirror of the Divine. As I shine ever brighter in my own Divinity,  I may indeed be of great Service. You are here. Something has brought us both to this moment in beautiful, perfect timing. What is alive for you in your life?

What internal voices keep you from shining as brightly as you may? What facets of yourself are calling for love and compassion?  What parts of you desire to be seen, witnessed and consciously integrated?

I look forward to diving ever deeper here with you. To share with you my journey as an authentic Sexual being, and to provide the insight of my life to be of Service in yours.

Blessings,

Kris Ellen

I am honored to share that Spirit is calling me to expansion and growth.

Please help me by sharing your experience, so that I may honor what is working, and address what is not working within my marketing plan.

I look forward to sharing wonderful Sensualist Experiences with as many beautiful beings as I may.

I am grateful for your impute.

Blessings,
Kris Ellen

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I have returned home safe from my recent tour of the magical Northwest. In my travels I had the pleasure of making new friends, sharing delightful Sensualist sessions, driving through the biggest rainbow I have ever seen and soaking in the hot waters of Breitenbush Hot Springs.

I look forward to returning to the beautiful, green Northwest. I loved Portland. For now, my traveling feet are content. I am going to take some time to feel rooted here in my home, Central California.

As I expand to reach more people in my Sensualist journeys, recently, I have become increasingly aware of insincere seekers. People who are not really interested in their own self exploration, and enjoy spending time creating stories. Stories which serve to titillate their personal enjoyment of “pulling something on someone”. If this is a kink you enjoy, please do not spend time weaving this insincere story with me. It is my mission to hold space for those who have a sincere interest in their own evolution. If you spend my time with deceit I have less time to honor those who truly have something to share.

Thank you for hearing me. I look forward to a shift in consciousness, so that people no longer have to hide parts of themselves. A place where we are all empowered to speak freely of our natural, and honored parts of Self. Where shame and fear do not hold our hearts, minds, and Spirits captive.

So may it be. Each choice we make leads us toward or away from this place. Let’s bring it into being soon.

In love.
Kris Ellen

I am excited to share that I am looking at creating a  newsletter!

This form of contact will help communicate the wonderful passion I have for Sensuality and  Human connection. In this quarterly publication, I look forward to sharing: Articles, Polls, Toy and Product reviews (A view from the Toy Chest), a very edgy space called Pandora’s Box (which will ask difficult questions  and hopefully shine a beautiful, caring light on many forms of Sexuality), as well as tips and treats.

I hope to have click through box here on the site soon, but until I do please email me if you are interested in joining my mailing list!

My email is:  sensualnymph@gmail.com

I look forward to hearing from YOU!

Blessings, Kris Ellen

You all make this possible. With your sincere interest in personal expansion, and pleasure. I am honored to touch the lives of such a wonderful group of beings.

In front of a roaring fire we shared beautiful times. Thank you for participating in the Dream we created together.

Tomorrow I am offering a Free discussion night. Come explore the topics of Tantra, Polyamoury, Sacred Sex and many others…we will be at Old Town Coffee and Chocolates in Eureka CA. Starting at 6pm.

I look forward to seeing you there, and sharing my last night in Humboldt County for awhile.

Wishing you a VERY Joyous Holiday Season.

Love On dearHearts.

Blessings,
Kris Ellen

Blessings.

Kris Ellen.

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