What an amazing time we have been born into. There are a lot of intense astrological events happening this summer.

Please check out this link for more information: http://inharmonyastrology.blogspot.com/2010/06/summer-to-remembersolstice-lunar.html

Here in my skin suit, I have been surfing the waves. I hope you have created time and space for Self care in these dynamic times. Listen to your body, can you feel where you are holding your tension?

I invite you to take time to take time to be with some water. Be grateful for this wonderful element which we are blessed with. Bring your consciousness to the blessings of water. We are made up of a large percentage of this beautiful substance. Allow it to soak into you, to absorb your days stress and worries. If you are in a bathtub: add a few drops of Lavender or Sandalwood as calming aromatherapy. Allow the water to cocoon you. You deserve it. Be held in her sweet embrace.

Here is a prayer for our planets water:

A PRAYER FOR OUR WATER Dr. Masaru Emoto, the scientist
from Japan who has done all the research and publications about the
characteristics of water and how, among other things, water physically
responds to emotions, has proposed a prayer for the Gulf situation.

Right now, most of us have the predominantly angry emotion when we consider what is happening in the Gulf. And while certainly we are justified in that emotion, we may be of greater assistance to our planet and its life forms, if we sincerely, powerfully and humbly pray the prayer that Dr Emoto, himself, hasproposed.

“I send the energy of love and gratitude to the water and all the living creatures in the Gulf of Mexico and its surroundings. To the whales, dolphins, pelicans, fish, shellfish, plankton’s, corals, algae and all living creatures…..I am sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.”

We are not powerless. We are powerful. Our united energy, speaking this prayer daily…multiple times daily….can literally shift the balance of destruction that is happening.We don’t have to know how……we just have to recognize that the power of love is greater than any power active in the Universe today.
Please join me in repeating this healing prayer of Dr. Emoto’s.

Please drink lots of filtered, healthy H2O. Your body will thank you.

Whatever you may know as your self care regimen, please take the time to pamper yourSelf. As we are being called to be more conscious; our own actions create in this world we live in. We must take care of ourselves, our neighbors, our community. We are called to shine this light of change into the world.  Hope starts right here. With you, with me, with our choices.

Let’s create the world which we desire to see, one choice at a time.

Blessings,

Kris Ellen

In the Tantra world we speak about Sacred spot (for both men and women), and Amrita.  We talk about life force activation, and Kundalini movement. All beautiful and amazing pieces of the Sacred whole.

In the same vein I could talk the Prostate and G Spot, female ejaculation. Bio-electric energy, and subtle energetic body currents. These feel slightly more academic and scientific however I am speaking about similar physical, and energetic structures.

Why is it that we choose one set of words over another? Why does society have less charge around some words and more charge around the direct “slag” terminology of our sexual bodies?

For the last 6 years I have been dancing in this question, it is one that fascinates and frustrates me.  If I could only say what people understand. Our common language does not necessarily include Hindu language references, or New Age energetic understanding. There is a reason why people who study ancient languages spend  years mastering the words of the ancients. There are subtle nuisances which defy casual understanding. Sanskrit is a ancient and beautiful language.

In some ways the landscape of Sacred Sexuality is defined learning the vocabulary. How and in what context we are using the words to describe our physical connection.

A few days ago I was introduced to the word: Auparishtaka: from the Kama Sutra: the Art of Oral sexual dancing.

I continue to be amazed at the many different ways we can say something.

Sharing my wonder here with you.

Blessings,

Kris Ellen

As a being dedicated the the Service of that which is bigger than myself, I rejoice to share with you a new chapter in my life. For a long time, I have stumbled on expressing the words which would best serve others. My internal critic is a very alive and present voice in my internal world. I am human, and part of the blessings I have found on this journey is the Service to share knowledge gained from experience.

I am filled with Joy to be able to share this is a deep aspect of Service. To embody the wisdom and knowledge gained from this life. I am honored to share here. This is truly my Spiritual bliss.

On my journey, I have noticed  internal voices blocking the Goddesses message. My human ego, trying very hard to tell me what is and is not the word of God. Ack! Resistance is futile. I find fear in my mind. Fear of not putting the words in the “right” order (of being judged for poor grammar and poor spelling). I notice the fear of being “unworthy” of these Divine gifts. I notice the different voices inside of myself and honor them for the many facets of this unique, and beautiful being. As I continue to evolve and move through these fears, I embrace the message of the Divine. We are all beautiful as we are.

I declare this a safe space to fully embody the Divine. All that which I bring to session, I bring here to myself. I am called to step deeper into my fears, to explore the depths of Self Realization and continue to bring these gifts to you, for your path, so that you may see yourself in the mirror of the Divine. As I shine ever brighter in my own Divinity,  I may indeed be of great Service. You are here. Something has brought us both to this moment in beautiful, perfect timing. What is alive for you in your life?

What internal voices keep you from shining as brightly as you may? What facets of yourself are calling for love and compassion?  What parts of you desire to be seen, witnessed and consciously integrated?

I look forward to diving ever deeper here with you. To share with you my journey as an authentic Sexual being, and to provide the insight of my life to be of Service in yours.

Blessings,

Kris Ellen

During  my journey as a blossoming Sensualist, I have been honored to attend numerous sex positive events on the West Coast. Sex parties are a modern day Ritual for the exploration and celebration of our sexual and sensual Selves. We are invited to embody the beautiful, natural, sexual nature of Self and create within a safe, sacred space. What that looks like depends on the person we are in the moment, and how we choose to create in the world.

For 9 years I have been blessed to be exploring these energies, in various communities at various times in my life. My first kinky play party was at Castlebar in San Francisco.  My first sex party was with Club Risque back in 2001. I have seen wonderful performance Art (and been part of a few inspiring pieces myself), I have held sacred space on the Vibes crews of various events. I have offered my Service as Dungeon Monitor.  I have frolicked in a Secret Garden at a Northern CA ranch.

I have experienced lots of opportunity to expand and grow over the years. However this past weekend, I had a wonderful break through. In using the skills I am integrating and exploring with the non-sexual cuddle party (watch for Review parties in Humboldt and Phoenix soon), I opened up those same Relationship skills, and empowered communication dynamics to create one of the most enjoyable events yet.

To feel truly naked, and held in a safe, enjoyable container I desire sacred space. I desire to be witnessed, acknowledge as a sacred being, and understand that is essential to my enjoyment of an event. My heart desires to play in a field of depth and beauty. I bring intensity to a space. It is part of my Gifts. To be held in that strong, powerful container gives me the freedom to unfurl my energetic, orgasmic wings.

For part of the evening, I shared a beautiful dance with a nameless Shiva, and in the perfect moment we saw each other in Divine beauty. We rocked the rafters. Sex can be so much more than two bodies fitting together with friction and chemical interactions. There is so much more to the dance of pleasure, and embodiment. Envision a field of Infinite energetic possibilities.   Breathing in the sounds of others cries of passion, allowing the fullness of our breath to carry my screams of joy to the heavens.

This is the Gift of sacred space. To honor, to be seen and to see others in their beauty.

I look forward to creating ever deeper understanding and offerings of pleasure to the Divine.

Till next time.

Namaste.

One of the tools in which I am now in training to share is the Cuddle Party (a workshop built to promote healthy, nurturing touch with strong communication, and self empowered choices).

Cuddle Parties are a chance for us to learn and practice our skills as sensual beings. In this safe, “non sexual” workshop we are empowered to create healthy boundaries with clear communication, and explore nurturing touch. These skills transcend any single facet of our lives. Sexual, non sexual. Friendships, partners, coworkers, neighbors; it is my belief that every single human being can benefit by learning communication skills, healthy boundary setting, body awareness and self empowered choice.

As an experiential workshop, we are given the chance and opportunity to express ourselves in Pajamas. Yes, that is right, this workshop is conducted and participated in our PJ’s! This fun way to rekindle the playful days of the PJ party of our younger days, tapping into the frolic and open nature of our inner child.

I will be scheduling three “review Cuddle Parties” for my Certification in May, and June. I am looking forward to sharing these wonderful workshops with you.

For more information about Cuddle Party, and to see if there is a facilitator in your location please visit
www.cuddleparty.com

Here is a nice SF Chronicle piece about one of the Co-creators of Cuddle Party.

Blessings,
Kris Ellen
Sacred Sensualist
Cuddle Party Facilitator *in training*

I am honored to share that Spirit is calling me to expansion and growth.

Please help me by sharing your experience, so that I may honor what is working, and address what is not working within my marketing plan.

I look forward to sharing wonderful Sensualist Experiences with as many beautiful beings as I may.

I am grateful for your impute.

Blessings,
Kris Ellen

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I have returned home safe from my recent tour of the magical Northwest. In my travels I had the pleasure of making new friends, sharing delightful Sensualist sessions, driving through the biggest rainbow I have ever seen and soaking in the hot waters of Breitenbush Hot Springs.

I look forward to returning to the beautiful, green Northwest. I loved Portland. For now, my traveling feet are content. I am going to take some time to feel rooted here in my home, Central California.

As I expand to reach more people in my Sensualist journeys, recently, I have become increasingly aware of insincere seekers. People who are not really interested in their own self exploration, and enjoy spending time creating stories. Stories which serve to titillate their personal enjoyment of “pulling something on someone”. If this is a kink you enjoy, please do not spend time weaving this insincere story with me. It is my mission to hold space for those who have a sincere interest in their own evolution. If you spend my time with deceit I have less time to honor those who truly have something to share.

Thank you for hearing me. I look forward to a shift in consciousness, so that people no longer have to hide parts of themselves. A place where we are all empowered to speak freely of our natural, and honored parts of Self. Where shame and fear do not hold our hearts, minds, and Spirits captive.

So may it be. Each choice we make leads us toward or away from this place. Let’s bring it into being soon.

In love.
Kris Ellen

I am excited to share that I am looking at creating a  newsletter!

This form of contact will help communicate the wonderful passion I have for Sensuality and  Human connection. In this quarterly publication, I look forward to sharing: Articles, Polls, Toy and Product reviews (A view from the Toy Chest), a very edgy space called Pandora’s Box (which will ask difficult questions  and hopefully shine a beautiful, caring light on many forms of Sexuality), as well as tips and treats.

I hope to have click through box here on the site soon, but until I do please email me if you are interested in joining my mailing list!

My email is:  sensualnymph@gmail.com

I look forward to hearing from YOU!

Blessings, Kris Ellen

You all make this possible. With your sincere interest in personal expansion, and pleasure. I am honored to touch the lives of such a wonderful group of beings.

In front of a roaring fire we shared beautiful times. Thank you for participating in the Dream we created together.

Tomorrow I am offering a Free discussion night. Come explore the topics of Tantra, Polyamoury, Sacred Sex and many others…we will be at Old Town Coffee and Chocolates in Eureka CA. Starting at 6pm.

I look forward to seeing you there, and sharing my last night in Humboldt County for awhile.

Wishing you a VERY Joyous Holiday Season.

Love On dearHearts.

Blessings,
Kris Ellen

The teacher was an embodied woman who shared the Dance Arts. We shared this class with other men and woman who desire to learn how to move their bodies with conscious Intent.

What a holistic, fulfilling experience to step into!

I look forward to aiding this Goddess bring her energies here to the Phoenix Goddess Temple!

Play on SisStars. We are here sharing our light.

In gratitude.

Kris Ellen