It has been 7 years since I lived in the San Francisco Bay Area. My path has taken me to the depths of Self exploration and back. In these depths I redefined and confirmed my Service to humanity. Thus the Professional Sensualist was born.

Now, 7 years later I find myself called back to the Bay Area. The level of consciousness and community sing to my heart. The next few months I will be expanding my offerings and sharing these delightful Sensualist sessions with sincere seekers.

In CELEBRATION of this return, I am offering a special offering of support to reconnect with my Bay Area roots. For the next phases of my journey, I am offering these Arts at an amazing value. Yes, I understand these are challenging times financially. I honor your hard work for your chi, and when you choose to share this abundance here for your own growth and pleasure you make a choice. How do you choose to spend your money?

In September I will be moving to San Francisco for a couple of weeks. I have a delightful Temple space available and will be creating delightful sessions for sincere seekers.

I have some Cuddle Parties planned for this fall in the East Bay. These events are a great non-sexual way to learn communication, and relationship boundary skills you can use everyday. Check out cuddleparty.com for more information about these wonderful events.

If you are a practitioner of the Sensual Arts, I will be coordinating with Dr. Betty Martin for her Like a Pro course in the end of August.

More events will be added soon. Keep your eyes out, and I look forward to hearing from you soon to schedule your delightful Sensualist session.

Blessings,

Kris Ellen

I invite you to explore your highest potential with me, Kris Ellen: Sacred Sensualist, and these amazing Goddesses.

I am honored to share that as my travels have expanded my practice, so too my knowledge of the amazing women in our community has blossomed. My fellow Goddesses are some of the most talented women offering sessions in our world. They travel the globe offering these Sacred Arts. Are you ready to receive from not just one Goddess, but two?

If you desire a delicious session with us please contact me. This is your chance to create a delightful investment in your Tantric journey.

I look forward to our time together.

Blessings,

Kris Ellen

It has been an amazing Spring travel season for this big hearted being. I have traveled over 2500 miles in one month, and Spirit is sharing with me that it is time to stick closer to home for a little while. I am happy to share that I will be moving deeper into the Bay area community both with my work, and my personal connections.

If you are visiting the San Francisco bay area and desire to explore your Sensual depth, please send me a email or give me a call. I am honored to facilitate amazing Sensualist sessions, Sensual Domination as well as Touch and Intimacy coaching.

I bring depth, intimacy and authentic pleasures to all that I do. This work is an amazing blessing to which my heart beats true. I invite you to join me here, in this sacred space to explore what that looks like in your world.

If you have specific challenges in the Sensual realm, I would love to share with you the tools to live a enjoyable and authentic life. You are worth it! Only you can make the choice, to create the opportunity for growth in your own life. Please check out my Coaching contract for the rights and responsibilities I hold sacred in my practice.

For more information and to schedule your session, please call me at 707-845-3076.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Blessings,

Kris Ellen

I drove by two that I could see from the road. Happenstance and the attached gas station had me stopping by the Cherry Patch II  (http://cherrypatchwhorehouse.com). I desired to have a conversation with the other sisters whom I honor for their Service in the sexual living realm.

When I saw it was an authentic Nevada brothel I giggled, and danced in joy. This was it! This was a chance for me to get to know my sisters and share my gratitude with them. For me to hear from them what their relationship to their work is, and what it feels like for them.

At first I was giddy with the excitement of exploration. I walked up to the locked iron gate and pushed the button. Then a sense of being in a zoo came to me. Was I here to gawk  at the women? I felt the bars with my hands as a middle aged woman came to see what I wanted. Her clothes were baggy and hanging on her. She shared with me that it was “company policy” not to allow anyone but clients into the space.

Perhaps this is because of “a firm no-woman policy to put a stop to the domestic disputes that broke out, disrupting business, when wives and girlfriends came looking for their partners” (brothel pg. 12) Perhaps this was to bring in as much money as possible. I can not say for sure. I only know how it felt to me.

Another book that comes to mind about brothels is “Callahan’s Lady” by Spider Robenson. A great look into a very unique brothel in the fiction world. Now there is a open, generous place!

Energetically I was stunned. After spending a few weeks in various Temples all over the Southwest to be looking at this picture. I was disheartened.

In the various Temples I have been blessed with visiting, conversations often roam to spiritual and conscious realms. Other brothers and sisters who practice these Arts are welcome to be in the space, and hang out in the classroom/lounge. In contrast to the view and feeling I just had at the Nevada brothel there is a general welcoming flavor (with the exceptions, and challenges I found at one point of my trip).

I asked the woman to please convey my gratitude to the women for offering their service to others.

I felt in my heart a true and painful sadness.

As my eyes took in the whole picture I noticed the structure was a old beat up mobile home parked next to the Bar. There were patches on the roof, and the whole thing felt ramshackle and unloved.

Where was the beauty? Where was the welcoming grace of the Goddess? Oshun a beautiful Goddess who loves opulence and sexuality was outraged.

I practiced out of a trailer for a year. I know how it can feel to create a Temple inside of a space which might not be optimal. Not the stereotypical social/economic standards for the beauty of the sharing…and yet in my heart there is always the welcoming, nurturing Love I have for each person who walks through my door.

I noticed how removed these places were. How isolated. To me I felt like, yes,  you can have your sex, however it has to be in the middle of the desert.

People talk of legalization, and Nevada as a place of “see they have legalized sex work there”…and what I see…and feel energetically is pain. I saw how we segregate our sexual lives to “appropriate” spaces. …how unloved and under cared for these places can be.

I am moving from sadness to anger, and outrage. I am moving from disbelief to passionate affirmation.

This is why we have Sacred Sexuality. This is the deep crux of my journey.

I honor my sisters, who choose to work in these places. I hope it is serving them, to bring awareness and joy into their whole lives. I hope the joy of sharing the physical act with a willing participant touches the clients in their lives. I hope that clients of these women feel the healing and connectedness which can come from sharing such intimate energy. I hope they are able to transcend the monetary exchange for what lies beyond the gates of the Goddess. Seeing another person for who they are, and holding them in that time for the sacred journey that can be shared.

Namaste dearHearts.

As spring grows in fullness, this season again finds me ready and excited to travel to the annual Sedona Conference of Sex and Consciousness Educators. This year I will be presenting a perspective on celibacy in the polyamourious community. On my journey down into Arizona I have availability to create some time with you!

These dates are flexible, and I look forward to co-creating a delicious session with you as works for both our schedules.

I am available in Southern CA April 30th-May 3rd. May 1st I will be celebrating Beltane with some beautiful, sacred  ceremonies in Laguna Beach.

I am available in Phoenix May 4th and 5th, and May 12-16th. May 15th I am excited to share my first review Cuddle Party! Come out and join in the frolic. Tickets are $30 at the door, or are available online.

If you are in Utah I am looking at creating a travel plans which includes your beautiful state. Please contact me for more information.

Sensualist sessions, Coaching appointments and educational events are all available.

I look forward to sharing these amazing Sacred Arts with you.

Blessings,

Kris Ellen

One of the tools in which I am now in training to share is the Cuddle Party (a workshop built to promote healthy, nurturing touch with strong communication, and self empowered choices).

Cuddle Parties are a chance for us to learn and practice our skills as sensual beings. In this safe, “non sexual” workshop we are empowered to create healthy boundaries with clear communication, and explore nurturing touch. These skills transcend any single facet of our lives. Sexual, non sexual. Friendships, partners, coworkers, neighbors; it is my belief that every single human being can benefit by learning communication skills, healthy boundary setting, body awareness and self empowered choice.

As an experiential workshop, we are given the chance and opportunity to express ourselves in Pajamas. Yes, that is right, this workshop is conducted and participated in our PJ’s! This fun way to rekindle the playful days of the PJ party of our younger days, tapping into the frolic and open nature of our inner child.

I will be scheduling three “review Cuddle Parties” for my Certification in May, and June. I am looking forward to sharing these wonderful workshops with you.

For more information about Cuddle Party, and to see if there is a facilitator in your location please visit
www.cuddleparty.com

Here is a nice SF Chronicle piece about one of the Co-creators of Cuddle Party.

Blessings,
Kris Ellen
Sacred Sensualist
Cuddle Party Facilitator *in training*

I have returned home safe from my recent tour of the magical Northwest. In my travels I had the pleasure of making new friends, sharing delightful Sensualist sessions, driving through the biggest rainbow I have ever seen and soaking in the hot waters of Breitenbush Hot Springs.

I look forward to returning to the beautiful, green Northwest. I loved Portland. For now, my traveling feet are content. I am going to take some time to feel rooted here in my home, Central California.

As I expand to reach more people in my Sensualist journeys, recently, I have become increasingly aware of insincere seekers. People who are not really interested in their own self exploration, and enjoy spending time creating stories. Stories which serve to titillate their personal enjoyment of “pulling something on someone”. If this is a kink you enjoy, please do not spend time weaving this insincere story with me. It is my mission to hold space for those who have a sincere interest in their own evolution. If you spend my time with deceit I have less time to honor those who truly have something to share.

Thank you for hearing me. I look forward to a shift in consciousness, so that people no longer have to hide parts of themselves. A place where we are all empowered to speak freely of our natural, and honored parts of Self. Where shame and fear do not hold our hearts, minds, and Spirits captive.

So may it be. Each choice we make leads us toward or away from this place. Let’s bring it into being soon.

In love.
Kris Ellen

The teacher was an embodied woman who shared the Dance Arts. We shared this class with other men and woman who desire to learn how to move their bodies with conscious Intent.

What a holistic, fulfilling experience to step into!

I look forward to aiding this Goddess bring her energies here to the Phoenix Goddess Temple!

Play on SisStars. We are here sharing our light.

In gratitude.

Kris Ellen

Such amazing adventures are afoot! I am honored to share delicious sensualist experiences with seekers far and wide.  I am currently in the Central Valley of CA close to Sacramento. I will be making various trips over to the Bay Area untill October 15th when I leave for Arizona!

Oct. 19-25 I will be in Sedona AZ. And then I will be heading to Phoenix!

After the 26th of October I will be serving at the Phoenix Goddess Temple for sometime. Please visit their website at http://phoenixgoddesstemple.org/

If you have any questions or invitations, please give me a call at 707-845-3076.

I look forward to connecting with you!

Blessings,

Kris Ellen

Review: Kris Ellen. Professional Sensualist
My wife and I met Kris Ellen and after a number of refreshingly open and mature conversations about our mutual interest in Tantra and spiritual growth, we scheduled a session. After a “getting to know each other” conversation, the three of us went to our ocean side home and my wife and I discovered a deep, enjoyable and very special sharing with Kris Ellen. She is the heart of Tantra and someone who can aid anyone in their growth . We look forward to many great times with Kris Elle to sharing, and growing together.
G.

I am honored to share these gifts of sacred, sensual connection with you.

Blessings,

Kris Ellen