One of the most frequent questions I’m asked is, “What happens during a session?”

As unique individuals and consenting adults we are empowered to create our own special sharing.

We live in a society that villifies the commercialism of sexual energy.  I do not “charge” for specific acts. According to many state and federal laws that would be illegal. I do not discuss specifics on the phone or in email. Discretion and respect are vital to honoring each other.

I ask compensation for my time and knowledge. I have certifications,  training, and experience in
the areas that I share with my clients.

Perhaps a better questions to ask are, “What do you desire to create?” “What parts of yourself do you seek to know better?”  “What experiences call to you to be shared?” As a facilitator, I enjoy creating a session that touches your desires as well as respecting both our bounderies.

I ask to meet all first time clients in a public place (usually a coffee shop) to get to
know each other a little, and generally get an idea if we’ll work well together. After this meeting we have
the choice to move into a session or not.

Please, be aware of expectations. Communication is very important. Only if we ask for  what we desire
may we hear the answer to its possibility.

I am an Artist. I love my work, and I love viewing the creations that are possible between human beings.
What will that look like for us?  Have the courageto find out!

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In my experience I find that there are many levels of naked.
As a practitioner of the healing arts it is important to know
these different levels of naked, and to create a safe and
warm environment for people to feel held and so that
they might open up to the highest vision of themselves.

The most easily recognized sate of naked is the
physical. For most of us, we are able to share that
level of interaction with others. Sometimes it brings up
deep feelings of vulnerability, body issues, and
other things we hide when “clothed.”

The state of being emotionally naked is another
level. To feel safe in expressing feelings honestly
and without blocking them, or pushing them under the
proverbial “rug” requires some comfort with being
emotionally naked. We must be naked to discover how
to go into depth and find where feelings began and
how they manifest in one’s world every day.

Many of us have emotional patterns, constructs
in our emotional selves that follow previous choices,
and thus we do repeat our challenges again and again.
When emotionally naked, you may feel intense feelings
from the past. To examine those blocks, to look at the
emotions that have been trapped in you is a powerful
healing opportunity. It takes courage,
and your own determination to free
yourself from the patterns of the past.

Energetic nakedness is another level, one of which
many are unaware. We are all energetic beings. We
shine with the energies that are at play at every
moment. Some see it in color, others feel it in
density and scope. Our whole being is laid out for
all to see, unless we have created a defensive field
or energetic wall to separate us from others. To open
up those things that separate us means choosing to
feel, to be seen. That is a scary place for many. To
been seen as a whole being, shadow and light. All
those parts that we have judgments about. All
those places where we are afraid for others to look and
find us “lacking.” Those deep places where we hide our
power and knowledge in order to “fit in” or be
“acceptable.” These all are part of the energetic field.

Spiritual presence.

When we are healthy, happy, contented beings all
the layers of our being are working together and are
balanced. It is with imbalance that illness
happens. Being mind-full and naked is an essential way
to examine our own lives.

Have the courage to be naked. To open yourself up
to the healing you deserve.

Also called Male Sacred Spot (male G spot) in some forms of sharing.

The male Prostate is a form of flesh (slightly larger than a walnut) that can be felt inside the Male’s rectum. It serves the physical process of storing fluid that is released in ejaculation, as well as aids in the muscle contraction phase of ejaculations itself. Prostate cancer is one of the most common cancers affecting older men in developed countries. Why is that?

The prostate can be massaged, and manipulated. Called Prostate massage.

With touch, and thus the consciousness being present in our bodies perhaps we can aid in the health/awareness. There have been studies that show such a connection.

If clients are “in touch” with themselves, how does this negatively affect their lives? What harm is there in conscious, respobsible exploration? These are the questions I ponder often. With the taboos and shame that our society has placed on the Anus, rectum, ass in both genders often it is a hidden desire. Male’s often have the fear that if they enjoy their ass being played with that they are homosexual (a social construct/fear?). Sometimes we have shame of our bodies, shame of our body functions, fear of vulnerability; of letting someone in. These are some of the shadow aspects of ass play. Aspects of ourselves that are hidden deep within.

Have courage ass fans. With mind-full exploration you too can enjoy another pleasure-able aspect of your body. Let go of the fears, and shame. With time and play, you too can be the Ass King or Queen you always desired to be.

Often when I read ads for providers, Escorts,
Goddesses of sacred sex, I have a puzzled look on my
face. There are so many labels in this world;
there are many words that seem to mean similar things
but humans over the ages have a tendency to create
different ways of saying the same thing!

Tantra is a form of sacred sex having to do with
breathwork and energy movement. It deals with
raising Kundalini (life force) up the spine and
spinning the seven chakras open for a greater
awareness of energy (pleasure, consciousness. etc).
Eastern Tantra, like Eastern Yoga, is more of a
macrosystem whereas Western Tantra (neo-tantra) and
Yoga give us specific tools to explore our bodies/energy fields.

What is it that I do? Is it Tantra or not?

I am a mirror. I share many different aspects of sacred
sexuality with people. Some have called it Tantra,
others energy work. There are many labels, titles
for it. I call it my passion, my bliss. I have not yet
recieved “formal” training in Tantra.
What I share, I share from my heart. A inner
“knowing” that allows me to share many different
aspects of energy with someone.

I offer a safe container for the sharing of two
beautiful people (or more!). I love sharing
multiple hours with multiple
people. Couples, ménage à trois, attending parties,
you name it.

So no matter what you call it, for me, at its
core, it is love. Divine love. I love all of my
clients, the most challenging ones to the most
blissful encounters. They all share
with me a piece of the vision (experience) of the
world, as I share mine. I am grateful for the
opportunity to be of service and to share these
beautiful gifts, these beautiful moments with
those who seek them.

Welcome to my little corner of cyberspace.

Many people have commented over the years about
the title “Professional Sensualist.” “How did you
come up with such a perfect word combination?” “What
inspired you to choose that description?”

It goes back to when I was just
starting to explore the possibilities of offering my
arts to those who seek them. I was a Professional
Dominatrix in the Bay Area at the time. As a Dominant,
one of the ways that I described myself was a Sensual
Dominant; my focus was the art of touch and the scenes.

I understand that the arts of power exchange and
intense sensation are not for everyone.
As I explored my own sensual side,
I came to feel a need in the world for
those who offer sensual services.
Human connection is a critically important aspect of human
sharing. There have been scientific studies that show
infants who are not touched do not thrive.
I believe adults have a similar, deep-seated need. As a
culture, we seem to be removing ourselves from our
families, from our partners, from ourselves. This
separation has created some interesting social
disfunction.

” Touch is one of the most essential elements of
human development, a profound method of communication,
a critical component of the health and growth of
infants, and a powerful healing force” (Bowlby, 1952;
Harlow, 1971, 1986).

“Ample research has demonstrated
that tactile stimulation is extremely important for
development and maintenance of physiological and
psychological regulation in infants, children and
adults” (Field, 1998, 2003; Montagu, 1971, 1986).

“Touch has been an essential part of ancient healing
practices. Touch has roots in shamanic and religious
practices, and is reported to have been an integral
part of health care practices and medicine since their
emergence from the realms of religion and magic”
(Levitan & Johnson, 1986; Smith, Clance & Imes,
1998).

With awareness and choice we can create something
different than disfunction.

I am a creative romantic. Always have been. I’ve always
crafted elaborate scenarios. “Why not open myself
up and create beautiful sharings in a Professional
context?” I asked myself.

Thus was a Professional Sensualist born.

The possibilities abound… let’s play!