Kris Ellen

Temple

The following is an excerpt from
I Remember Union: The Story of Mary Magdalena
by Flo Aeveia Magdalena
……….And They Came To Me, The People………
My hair was colored with henna,
its highlights red-gold in the sunlight, upon the black.
In my cells was the magic of the night
and as I walked,
the moon and the essence of the Goddess
pulsed from my body.
A rhythm vibrated
as shimmering starlight on water,
barely perceptible,
an illusion of movement
overlying density,
and it excited the senses.
My spirit merged with the cells of my body
and there was a dance as they spoke, one to the other,
as wind and fire uniting
– explosive –
to fuel the fullness of my expression in being.
A radiance surrounded me,
an aliveness permeated the air
and set me apart.
The people felt this radiance
and were drawn to it,
and therefore to me.
They came expecting me to give them something –
physical pleasure, love, soothing.
They would leave not knowing what I had done,
and yet knowing at the same time.
It was different
from anything they had experienced before:
– form, and yet, formless.
They would expect me to do what their wives, husbands, mothers, fathers, lovers, or
friends had done,
and I would not.

For my calling was to their soul,
and I served it as my master
and would not stray from my calling.
They came to learn of their immortality,
the true lessons of the soul,
for there was nowhere else for them to learn it.
Their religion taught them only what they were not:
took from them their power,
did not reflect to them the truth of their own divinity.
It was incredible that they believed this judgment came
from the creator of life.
God would not act as such.
They would yearn to understand their soul’s calling,
to listen to the code of the destiny within them,
and they would learn of me
and find their way to my door.
They came, for I lifted up their hearts,
their souls, their bodies, and their spirits,
nurturing their essence
so they felt and knew
their power and their purpose again.
They came to me in the night and the day
for the experience of
The Initiation Into Being
It would take many forms, this journey.
Fear had locked them into the prison of their minds,
and together we would free them.
Rather than fearing God or death or separation,
they learned to honor themselves
and to know the purpose of their choice to be human.
They learned to face the fear of the void within them,
the darkness which they had come to name as
sin, vulgarity, hatred, and vengeance.
At first, as the void called them to its brink,
they would stumble and hold back in terror.
And then they chose to find themselves –
coming to the void
having the courage
to leap from the world of illusion and fear
and fly with wings unseen,
trusting the invisible.

To be with the people in this way
was my greatest calling.
It was for me a gift,
the same as being home,
a blessing from the Gods.
Their bodies were the entry into their soul,
the path of their divinity,
and I would touch them in the centers of their energy
as a gentle healer.
They had forgotten that
when the awareness directs the pathway,
the frequencies
of the body, emotion, mind, and spirit
are balanced.
They had been taught to direct their pathway with their mind,
and so their frequencies were unbalanced,
causing separation, fear, and dis-ease in the body,
and so they would come to me.
I would call forth the life within them,
banishing the fear
and bringing about a merging of these levels into unity,
balancing the frequencies.
I breathed the current
of the fiber of being into their cells
as I had been taught.
I called forth from them
their light and life.
The cells knew who I was
and danced within the framework
of their universe
and laughed in remembrance
of their true being.
They would sleep as I made the sounds
of the angels’ flutes into their cells,
and the levels would come into harmony.
When they awoke,
a fine mist of sweat covered their flesh
from what had been released
and a glow or warm red
appeared in their cheeks.

They felt as if the Gods
had danced in their hearts,
as of course
they had.
Coming to see me again,
I would anchor light
into the darkness
which they held as beliefs
within the physical body.
Again through my breath
I would touch them gently
in the places of their power
creating a wave of energy.
Their life force then rose within their spines.
They felt the joy and excitement of freedom
and the acknowledgment of belonging,
trusting the body with their spirit.
The body would come alive and dance.
This would sometimes feel
like a physical release, or
a sexual release,
but it was not.
They diminished their force of life
by living from their minds,
and so their only experience of this life force
was through the sexual act.
They wondered how this wave of life
could be fostered and nurtured,
experienced within their cells and levels
and in their lives.
And when they came back to me,
I would show them this.
I taught them to create aliveness
by balancing their male and female,
their human and divine,
their knowledge with substance.
They came to feel this unity
within themselves,
and to share this with another soul
who did not judge them.

Our bond reached through
the human vale of tears
transcending our bodies
and our identities.
For a time
they remembered their origin
and their divinity.
They talked of it in different words
but it was always the same,
the merging into Oneness,
the remembrance of the fiber of being.
As they remembered their union with all,
we lived the reality of union together.
And because it was
the nearest thing to home,
it fed me continually with truth
in an untrue world.
And therefore,
I REJOICED

Greetings Friends,

As a traveling Sensualist, I am honored to visit many different locations in which I share Temple offerings. In my heart I define Temple: as the space in which the Sacred is honored and celebrated. Welcome to my online Temple.

For first time Patrons: please review the following form, print out and bring a copy to our first session. This time will create a deeper understanding of your needs and desires, so that our time together may be as healing and conscious as possible. Here is a copy of the Orientation form. Also included on this page is a copy of my Sex Coaching Contract. If you are interested in Sex Coaching, please review this document.

Temple Orientation

WELCOME to the Temple. It is the intention in this sacred space to fully honor your privacy and personal boundaries while providing the practitioner with sufficient information to employ the most appropriate healing methods in your sessions. Please choose a confidential Temple Name which inspires you to your highest potential.

Seeker Name:_________________________________

*Please choose a unique name easily remembered; your spiritual name is how you will be known in the Temple. Your name can be from literature or history, a favorite color or even your childhood pet. Your privacy is assured as you embark on this journey of inner-knowing. Your temple name should inspire you to move beyond the limits of the strictly material world to fully connect with soul, spirit and the energy of life. Be as a child once again, dream, laugh, feel and play in complete freedom from the norms of everyday life. KNOW THYSELF!

(please initial the following statements: )

_____ I agree my purpose in Temple is to seek knowledge of my soul’s expression. The sensitive and personal nature of the work requires a full commitment on my part, as well as my healer, to trust one another as fellow seekers of body wisdom.

_____I acknowledge that I will not receive any type of sexual gratification in exchange for money during my session. All that unfolds at the Temple is consensual exchange between self aware beings for the purpose of expanding knowledge of life and life’s experiences.

_____ My guide/healer and I will be fully consensual in granting one another permission to touch and be touched physically and to share energy in a intimate and safe manner as defined between the two of us.

_____My guide/healer and I will hold in privacy and trust the information shared during our session, and will not discuss any details of our experience outside of the Temple.

_____I agree to fully honor the unique session between myself and the Temple. I acknowledge that my expectations are my own, and any consequence due to my mental projection of what a session “should” look like is my own responsibility.

PLEASE MARK ALL THAT APPLY: At this point, I consider myself a:
____Guest (to satisfy curiosity)
____Seeker (to find something that is missing in my life)
____Student (to continue learning tantric/spiritual mysteries)
____Priest/ess, Healer, Teacher (to expand my own ministry of healing)
____Double Agent (to uncover the truth of temple teachings on the body, sacred sexuality and energy as it relates to established social moirés and regulations)

I/We are interest in learning more about (please circle all that apply) :

Tantra   ~   Sacred Sexuality  ~ Divine Pairs Couples Tantra  ~  Tantra for 1   ~    His and Hers Chakras   ~  Yin-Yang Polarity  ~ Power Exchange  ~  Goddess Temple History  ~  Whole Body Healing  ~  Increasing Orgasmic Potential  ~   Erectile Dysfunction  ~   Premature Ejaculation ~  Prostate Health (male sacred spot)  ~   Breast Health  ~   G Spot education (female sacred spot)  ~  Full Body Bliss  ~   Goddess Worship & Goddess Guide Me  ~ Sex as Spirituality  ~   Electric Body 101  ~ Reiki as an energetic healing force ~  Sound healing  ~  Exploration of the Sensual Body ~  Nurturance  ~ Being held  ~ Relationship skills  ~  Spiritual student paths

Are you aware of any emotional  /   physical  /  sexual abuse in your past? (if so please indicate any that resonate)

What is your relationship to your healing practice with these energies? (please note: intense energy sessions sometimes bring forth unpleasant memories or associations. If anything comes up for you, please share with your practitioner and honor the sacred nature of this exchange.)

What results would you like to achieve from your session? What is your Intent regarding healing and integration?

Would you like to receive email about upcoming classes, socials, guest teachers? Y  N

If yes, please list email address here:__________________________________

I agree to honor myself, the sacred nature of the Temple, and all that is shared here between empowered, consenting adults.

Signature:__________________________________Date:___________________

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Here is a example of my Sex Coaching Contract: (for phone, Skype and In Person sessions)

Welcome to Kris Ellen’s Sex, Intimacy, Relationship Coaching. I am honored to walk this path with you. I am joyous to see you have taken this time and allocated these resources to choose for me be your guide and coach.

What is sex coaching?

Sex coaching is a mix of these elements:
Personalized sexuality information and education
Redirective cognitive processes and mental reframing
Emotional balancing
Intuitive guidance
Behavioral training
Resources and referrals

Sex coaching involves all of these part of you:

Mind. Information. You “internal-talk,” thinking about sexual performance, capacity for fantasy, and troubling thought patterns, such as compulsivity.

Emotions. Feelings. Feeling that you carry from the past, about your body and body image, what you suppress and express, how you express you emotions, and your capacity for intimacy.

Body and body images. Your physical self. Knowing how your own sexual pattern works, understanding your own body’s sexual form and function, acknowledging your own sexual functions and challenges, and learning skills for how to be a successful lover alone or with another.

Energy. Sex is all about energy! The buildup, the containment and the expression of energy. In my work I observe energy patterns with the individual, and I give coaching feedback for handling this very important part of sexuality.

Spirit. The essence of the self. Esoteric moments or practices that transcend the moment, such as peak orgasms; sacred sexuality, the more subtle and delicate manner in which people deny or reflect their inner self through sexuality; and the path of sex to experience the divine or God.

As a Coach: what are my responsibilities?

To guide, direct, and be a mirror for your internal process.
To empower you to attain the dreams you desire
To empower you to overcome any sexual difficulties you may have or fear you have
To help you reach your sexual/relationship goals and together find results that uplift your Spirit.

As the client: what are your responsibilities?

To be on time for your scheduled appointment
To pay on time
To provide a comprehensive history on sexual relationships
To be authentic and share your truth with me
To acknowledge full responsibility for your physical, emotional and mental well-being, including your choices and decisions.
To be aware that you can choose to discontinue your coaching at any time.

As a coaching client, I understand that coaching is a comprehensive process that may involve all area of my life, including work, health, finances, relationships, recreation and education. I acknowledge that deciding how to handle these issues, incorporate coaching into these areas, and implementing my choices are exclusively my responsibility.

Services: The Coach agrees to be accessible to the Client whenever possible and to be fully present to all scheduled sessions.  The Client may attempt to contact the Coach at any time, day or night.  Coach agrees to receive contact whenever possible, with the guarantee of follow up to be made on missed contact attempts as soon as possible.  Payment is due at the time services are rendered.

What are the Fees?

My fees are set at $120/hr for  phone sessions. Payment is required via Paypal or credit card in advance of our time together. Package rates are available with multiple hour purchase.

Cancellations may be made without penalty up to 24 hours prior to the scheduled session.  If a session is not canceled 24 hours prior, the session will be billed at the designated hourly rate.  If the client is more than 15 minutes late to a session, the session will be billed at the hourly rate. If sessions are continually missed or rescheduled by the Client, Coach reserves the right to withdraw from the coaching agreement.

Coaching is not nor is it to be used as a substitute for professional advice by legal, financial, spiritual or other qualified professionals. Any decisions made, and the consequences thereof, are the sole responsibility of the Client. Under no circumstances can Coach be held liable for any actions taken by the Client.

Frequency: ___________________________________________________________
Session Duration:  _____________________________________________________
Contract Duration:  ____________________________________________________
Rate:  ________________________________________________________________

Credit Card information:
Visa/Mastercard
Credit Card #______________________________
Expatriation date:_____________
3 # pin on back of card:_______________________
Zip code for billing address:_______________________

Client: _________________________________________________ Date: ________

Client: _________________________________________________ Date: ________

Coach: _________________________________________________Date: ________

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